Thursday, January 24, 2013

Mistakes Guys Make Talking to Women

Are you striking out every time you talk to women? When you see an attractive woman, have you come to the point where you simply walk away without even making an effort? Most of the time these things occur because you simply suck at talking to women! Guys can make a lot of mistakes when conversing with a beautiful woman and if you are tired of making them, you have come to the right place.

Conversation Starters

How do you approach a woman? Do you ask permission to start the conversation? That my friend is you first mistake. Not only are you setting the wrong tone for the conversation you are almost screaming out that you are needy and insecure. Walk right up to a gorgeous woman and start talking, just assume she is interested in what you have to say.

Bragging

How much do you talk about yourself? You may want to impress upon her your every quality, but talking incessantly about your abilities, looks or career you will turn off most women in mere seconds! Instead of talking about yourself listen to what she has to say about her life, show a genuine interest and you will be amazed at how quickly she will become interested in your qualities.

Compliments

If you find she has a particularly attractive feature you may find it tempting to compliment her eyes, derriere, figure or some other physical attribute. Flip this process on its head and start by trying to figure out who she is and what she desires, eventually you can tell her how gorgeous she is but first learn her heart and mind.

Nervous Fidgeting

When you are talking to a beautiful woman what are you doing with your hands and feet? Look, it is normal to be nervous, especially during first dates or when you initially approach a woman, but you must learn to control fidgeting! Nothing conveys a lack of self-confidence better than constant hand wringing or shuffling from one foot to the other. Look into her eyes, calm your nerves and avoid fidgeting at all costs, it is not attractive and in fact smacks of desperation.

Power of Teasing

Do women tend to find you boring? Here are a few things to watch for:

Checking her watch- repeatedly
Physically withdrawing from your, leaning further back in her chair, turning slightly away
Glazed eye appearance
One word or simple responses - oh wow, really, that's great for example

If you want to avoid annoying your date with boring conversation, try teasing her a bit. Instead of praising her every attribute and lavishing her with attention, bust on her a little. Making fun of her will be a refreshing change from the tons of guys who bow and scrape at her feet. Point out those little things like freckles, glasses or something she might be slightly uncomfortable about. Examples:

Your freckles are the most adorable thing
Glasses huh, you must be a bookworm!
Give her a cute nickname- brat, punk, freckles

These are just a few ways you can playfully tease her and keep the conversation interesting. A couple of tips you might want to keep in mind, never tease her when she is sharing something serious and take time for regular conversation too. Think less is more when it comes to teasing.

Conclusion

How many mistakes are you making? If you are making several, don't feel lonely (or do because your dates are not going well!) many men are making these same mistakes as well. Fortunately, with some dedication and a few tips you can turn your boring conversation into an attention grabber in no time.

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