How Can You Tell If The One You Love Is Using You?

Forty years ago the dating world was a lot different. Couples who met through a dating service fell in love got married and raised a family.

There are some couples still married today living out their golden years. The woman wasn't used like she is today because back then the man was the stronger of the sexes, was more trustworthy, was the main income earner and showed his wife respect.

Today is different with women making incomes exceeding the opposite sex, declaring independence and doing men's jobs. Men are using women more than ever and many women support the family while the man sits at home taking care of the children.

There are still men who believe the old-fashioned way and want to take care of his woman while she cleans the house. Some men on the other hand don't want to work and they let their woman support them.

If your mind is stronger than your heart, you can tell if the one you love is using you by watching how they act, what they say and things they do.

If your guy waits for your paycheck, lives in your house not contributing to the bills and doesn't work, he is definitely using you.

If he works, pays the bills, treats you with respect, takes you out for dinner and sends you flowers he definitely loves you and is not using you.

Women being used by the one they love don't seem to care as long as he's with them. They're blinded by their love and will give their guy whatever he wants to keep him happy.

If he's gone a lot especially at night, he is probably cheating on you using your credit card to buy flowers for his other girlfriend. Some guys will let his girlfriend buy him a car or get him a credit card to buy clothes and he accepts it.

He has no pride as long as she takes care of him. She cleans the house, does the laundry, takes care of the kids, feeds the cat, does the grocery shopping and works a full-time job, while he sits around watching her do all this.

The one you love is using you getting away with it because your heart belongs to him. If you continue giving him what he wants, he'll never do anything but be a loser.

Sure in your eyes he's not, but everybody you know that sees him using you knows that he's making a fool out of you. Women don't need to be used and should not allow it to happen.

It's time to wake up and find someone who will love you for yourself. There's a great guy waiting to love you without you being used.