Inner Game Power: Having the Right Mindset About Rejection

So much of your inner game confidence rests in your ability to have a strong and positive mindset. A strong mindset is one that will not be broken by a bad experience. A positive mindset reinforces you to reach your dating goals, generates a positive emotion, and is believable.

Here are some examples of positive mindsets when dealing with rejection:

1. Every woman I approach brings me one step closer to my next girlfriend.

Many men take rejection personally. They think that just because a woman is not interested, that it somehow reflects their own self worth. "If she thinks I'm not good enough, then I must not be good enough." Can you imagine how awful that mindset can hurt your inner game? You have no idea why that woman isn't interested. It could be because she is a lesbian, you are simply not her type, or she has a boyfriend. Besides, she doesn't know who you are. She met you for two seconds. Every woman you approach brings you one step closer to the woman of your dreams. If a woman rejects you, she is simply screening herself out.

2. To find that one out of a thousand woman, I will need to meet a thousand women.

You have to understand and accept in your inner game that you will have to approach a lot of women to find that really special lady. I probably approached thousands of women and of those women, I dated only a few for the long term in a committed relationship. You can bet that those women were very high quality because I had options and I met plenty of women. Getting rejected by women is a part of the process, no matter how good you are at picking up women. Don't let it affect your inner game.

3. I deserve the very best in a woman, and her being attracted to me is a great screening tool.

When you successfully meet a woman, but she loses attraction for you, this can sometimes hurt you more than if she rejected you from the approach. Remember, not everyone is compatible with you in the long run. She may have lost interest through no fault of your own. Maybe she started dating her ex boyfriend again. Regardless, you deserve a woman who will be attracted to who you are as a person and not someone she thought you were. You shouldn't have to emotionally manipulate or pretend to be someone else to keep a quality woman in your life. Doing so will only hurt your inner game.

4. Women that have great taste go for a guy like me.

Finally, placing a high value on yourself is important for your inner game. If a woman is interested in you, don't ever think it's because she is desperate, she doesn't see your flaws yet, or there is something wrong with her if she likes you. No, a woman who is interested in you knows a quality guy when she sees one. That is why she is dating you.

Rejection will happen throughout your life. Everyone goes through it, even the beautiful women you approach get rejected. Take it like a champ, brush the dirt off your shoulder, and keep going. Eventually, with enough approaching, you will meet the woman of your dreams.